How Did This Happen?
Written by Robert D. Sollars
Every perpetrator of violence forewarned their intent by showing warning signs, which are virtually the same, no matter where the violence occurs (yes, schools, businesses, & other public places), for a long time, sometimes for years. Yet, no one takes them seriously. Instead of acting upon them, they make a conscious decision to ignore them. The results of their IGNORANCE of the signs ended up with people dead, wounded, & psychologically traumatized for days, months, or in some cases years.
So, how do you know when someone is ready to pop their proverbial cork and lash out at someone? The most simplistic answer is the best one… we don’t. However, I can give you the warning signs for someone who is likely to. No matter what anyone will tell you, the signs are virtually the same, except for the actual wording used, for both WPV & SV.
Recognizing the warning signs for these individuals is the best defense you have against something tragic occurring. In my 35 years of researching, writing, & speaking about WPV/SV, I’ve created a list of 25 of them that are the most prevalent;
Attendance Problems
Bullying
Continual Excuses
Concentration Problems
Cruelty to Animals
Disciplinary issues
Drug and Alcohol Abuse
New & growing fascination with Weapons
Free Expression
Impact on supervisory/instructor time
Inconsistent Work Habits/Decreased Productivity
Mental Illness
New Religious/Political Fervor
Obsession with Military/Police Tactics
Poor Health and Hygiene
Poor Relationship Skills
Safety Concerns
Serious Stress- both at work and home
Threats both open and veiled
Unshakable Depression
Unusual or Changed Behavior
Violent Music, Movies, and Video games
See anyone you know on this list? Just remember this little factoid…2 or 3 of these signs may not be anything to worry about, as one of the excuses I’ve posted about we all have issues”. But when they add up to 5, 6, or more of them…trouble will be on the horizon, not possibly or potentially…it will be ready to come over the rise and swat people. That trouble can be as deadly and dangerous as a tropical typhoon or Missoura tornado.
The solution to the warning signs? Don’t be an idiot and report any of these behavior indicators. Chances are the supervisor/manager will already be tracking them, if they’re worth their salt and title.
Part 2 will appear next week
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